I thought the constant debate within me was ending.
But the heart was just winning it.
The heart was still speaking but everything else was obeying it in increasing silence.
A silence long awaited for.
Should I thank my heart for being strong enough to win the debate?
To Write or not to Write and What to Write 
Debate is still going on, but heart is now strong enough to deal with.
If you feel debate within you it’s a sign of being alive….
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That is also true! I like that! Being alive is having the debate.
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The heart should be approved by the brain.🙂
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I would replace ‘approved’ with ‘supported’. The brain is mostly led by subconscious, isn’t it?
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Ahh, fair enough!
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But I must add, for some people, maybe the brain should speak louder. For me, it should not.
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For me, it depends on the situation.
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Well, that could be as well. I still mostly go by heart, because I trust my feelings a lot. But yours might be a better, more moderate approach.
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Yes maybe. I nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award. https://wordpress.com/read/feeds/93318802/posts/2276085460
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Am with you. Ideally head and heart should be in sync. If not listen to your heart. It is more inclusive and intuitive
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Agreed!
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Yes the head is mostly led by the subconscious mind. By our conscious thoughts, actions and affirmations we can rewire it.
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Yes, I have been working on that for some years now. Hard task because subconscious is strong but possible.
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Head and heart in sync is the ideal situation. We become intuitive
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Oh yes absolutely, in sync!🙂
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Ideally, yes!
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True, but usually, the heart feels things before the mind can grasp them. But in sync is the best because heart may be misled too, and it should be checked by the mind.
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Hello!!Betul, hope you are doing well. I nominated you for sun shine blogger award. http://sabaniazsiddique.home.blog/2019/05/13/sun-shine-blogger-award/
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Thanks for this! I will write a reply! Also, your introduction to me was so meaningful and I am honored to learn that I was the first blogger you followed! That means a lot ! Thanks a lot for all of this!
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My utmost pleasure 😻
I don’t know your cat name. Wouldn’t it be nice if he partakes too. 😹😹😺
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His name is Jale, though it is a female name:) You have cats too, right?
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It shows you don’t really read my posts 🤣🤣🤣
Yes I have cats. And my Sweetie with her new borns is next to me.😂😂
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I actually do, but I think it slipped my mind sorry! I think it is the jetlag that is messing up with me now:) I remember the name Sweetie now that you wrote it (because I’ve read it). Very many apologies.
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Oh don’t be so formal.
I do look up to you, and I can understand you are so busy. Thank you so much for managing your time for my writings.
Hope you are enjoying a blessed Ramadan. 💐💐🙂
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No I am not being formal but I just felt bad:) But it is really the jetlag:) anyways, we cat lovers rock:) You have a blessed Ramadan too! We are 1/3 into it now:)
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We’re going to observe the 9 sahree.
So it means we’re observing the same ushrah.
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I think I dont know these terms🙄 maybe we have something else in Turkish
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Sahree or Sheri is Ramazan night.
Ushrah is a collective noun for 10.
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Ok, yeah, now I agree with you!
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Were you disagree 🤣🤣
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😂
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If the heart is winning and you are obeying it in silence – it is so beautiful my dear. We are so led by our heads and that isn’t so exciting.
Ideally they should be in sync – head and heart and the way is : Meditation 🧘♀️ 😊
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Actually meditation made me listen to my heart better, although I have always been more intuitive than intellectual. They are not in contrast and they should not be, as you say, but one is more prominent in me I guess.
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If there is an imbalance it should be in favour of the heart. You are on the right track Betul 😊❤️
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I hope so!
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Agree!!!
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Great post!
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Thank you!
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