Who was that boy that moved to the neighborhood yesterday? As the leader of the children of this area, he needed to find out.
He decided that the best way to get him to join them was by asking him to come to the soccer game tomorrow. The game in which his team would definitely win, as always. He was now thinking that he would make this boy join his team if he turned out to meet his criteria. Otherwise, he would assign him to the other team, just like he did with all the other children in that team.
The next came and he went to invite the boy to the game. His first impression of the boy was that he was not his type. He looked shy and not very athletic. Sad, he had lost one potential addition to his team but whatever. It was better than having a lame child in his team. If you are going to have a bad thing, it is better to have nothing, right? Plus, a bad addition to the other team was good too. It would make them weaker.
The game started and watching the boy now, he was happy with his decision. This guy would really be no good. Phew!
His team won that day. No surprise.
The boy joined game after game and to his surprise, he was getting consistently better. He had never seen anyone improve that fast before. For the first time ever in his life, he questioned a decision he had made. The boy was not only good at the game, he also took care of all his teammates. Like a pro. He did not want to admit this, but this guy was probably a better leader than him. But he would never let him take charge. Ever. No one could challenge him.
Recalling these scenes as he looked at the news article now, he felt uneasy. Seeing the boy’s name in the news, praised as being one of the best soccer coaches, did not make him feel good. He took a deep sad sigh in the office he was stuck in for years, where he did little more than nothing. His leadership days were long gone, weren’t day? Or did they ever exist at all?
This is a very power and well written story. Leaders are those who recognize that there is untapped potential in every one. They Lead by example, modeling positive, listens intently, valuing ideas of others, supportive and developmental leadership skills. Reproduce themselves in others. Therefore, they are not threaten by the success of others, instead they embrace and encourage it. Also, they definitely know when to ask for help and when to step aside for Leadership Reform to save team and allow it to flourish.
This is a great topic discussion.
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Thank you for the great comment! A true and lasting leader is indeed one that connect with others!
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You are very welcome. I thoroughly enjoyed your post. It was very informative, filled lots of great points
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Thanks again!
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The pleasure was all mine!
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Lots of love! 🙂
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You are number one of my nominees 🙂
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This is such an honor, thank you! I will gladly answer your questions!
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Powerful story Betul.
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Thank you!
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Great story
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Thank you!
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My pleasure
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I think you can not be born as leader, you have to learn how to be one, from other true leaders…
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Yeah. It is a strategic endeavor.
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I think most of the things in our human life we have to learn, sooner or later…
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Agreed!
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You never stop learning until you cease to take your last breath
Anyone says they know everything is Full of It !!!!
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Great topic….
Leader who having leading qualities
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yes!
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Very decipher perspective Betul
I said before and will again
“A true leader is not measure by perfection but through precision of their Conviction helping others find their foundation ” E.O.S
Doesn’t mean you do not have flaws but don’t let your own flaws stop you find helping others around you rise above.
The difference between a good player and great one is this:
“Good player is an entertainer and puts on a show a Great one knows where the plays are going to be and makes others around them better” Wayne ( Great One ) Gretzky
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Alex
Look forward to your next segment Mate !!!
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This is great input! Thank you!
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Your welcome my pleasure Betul
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Also one thing needs to integrated that True Leader doesn’t do what others expect or the right decision but the Just one for integrity as whole for their team or unit etc.
They are not afraid defy and disregard protocol or follow orders
Always willing to make sacrifices to live or die in defining moment or event for Meyio and Yu
Alex
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Agreed!
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