An annoyingly busy day was waiting for her. She had to cook a lot today. Then she had to prepare a little speech for the kids. She did not know what to cook. She did not know what to say.
She got out of the bed with a lot of anxious feelings and a bit of nervousness. She went to the kitchen to at least make the coffee machine work. Something had to start working already.
She had a relatively calm breakfast, but a quick one. She got up right after her last bite and started cleaning the kitchen up a bit. After she organized the kitchen in a way that would motivate her (she definitely needed the music to flow through her ears), she started cooking. She did the basic stuff first and then moved onto the core food.
As she was preparing the ingredients for that food, she wanted to shout out of stress. She opened her mouth, with her eyes filled with tears, but she stopped. She remembered the day she started cooking with her mom and what her mom had told her then.
Cooking is not a chore. It is a way to connect with and help people. Only if you do it with that intention can you truly enjoy it.
She had said the same thing later as well. This one was years later, when she was a young adult. She was expected to give the introductory speech at an event for the poor people of the neighborhood but she was too lazy to do so. She avoided doing this extra work. Then her mom had said:
Giving a speech like this is not a chore. It is a way to connect with and help people. Only if you do it with that intention can you truly enjoy it.
She also remembered that at this same event, she had cooked with pleasure. Apparently cooking was not a chore anymore. Speaking should not have been either.
That talk with her mom had fueled her and made her task more meaningful.
Now, rather than the music at the background, it was her momโs words that were motivating her. They kept spinning in her head until the job finished.
Then, she sat down with her afternoon tea in her hand and the music in her ear. She was feeling the joy. Just like her mom had said.
So true! Moms are wise women.
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They are!
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Love those little pieces of advice by mom. Just a few words from mom can lighten our entire day. They clearly know what to say to their kids to make them smile.
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Exactly!
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Very true! We all need a reason to do what we do ๐๐
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Yes! Otherwise, why bother?
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Doing anything with passion is love, it’s never a chore, well written ๐
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Exactly! Thanks!๐
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๐lovely message ,I love my mom ๐๐ค
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They are worth being loved!
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Wow! What great words to remember. Iโll try to think of those when I have to do something I donโt particularly want to.
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We need to! It will help us!
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what a lovely gift her mom passed on to her
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It is!
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Exactly true! Never forget mother’s advises.! That will motivate us in life ! ๐
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Yes, they always come in handy!
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That’s a great post indeed
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Thank you!
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Betul I made my next travel plans today ๐ end September and early October I shall be in the east coast; where you live now and on the 21st October I shall be landing in Istanbul ๐
There is enough time to get your feedback on how to use the 4 full days and about half of the last day.
It will be one of my rare visits to a place where I donโt have any friends !
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Ah this is great! I will be very happy to help you out on this one! ๐
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Also I am on the West Coast. Will you drop by?
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Was on West Coast earlier this year Betul. This trip is to enjoy the fall colours. God willing, this time next year should visit West Coast again. Would love to meet you one day ๐ค
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Me too! If I can come to the East Coast at the time you are there, we can but there is school then. So I am not sure. But one day for sure!
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Wow! Amazing
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Thank you!:)
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Such a beautiful post!! Mother’s words are the best piece of advice!!
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They are!
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I love this so much! ๐
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Thank you!:)
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Words of wisdom!๐
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Thanks a lot!:)
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Such short beautiful everyday stories with a great meaningful impact. Love your blog!! Good luck.
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Thanks a lot! That is such a sweet, encouraging comment!
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That is great advice
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